May 052014

Tristan & Mom

This Friday, May 9th I celebrate my birthday and the 100th episode of Sex Out Loud with a very special show featuring…my mother! That’s correct: the woman who gave birth to and raised America’s foremost authority on anal sex, open relationships, and feminist porn will join me for a LIVE conversation about my upbringing, sex education, sexual politics and feminism. Plus, my mom and I will take phone calls from listeners! Every single person who calls will win a prize, so don’t be shy: now is your chance to ask my mother anything!

This week’s show is LIVE. Find out all the ways to listen here so you can call in with questions and comments at 1-866-472-5788, join the discussion on Facebook or Twitter, or e-mail me via tristan(at) and I’ll read them live on the air.

Sex Out Loud airs every Friday at 5 pm PT / 8 pm ET on the VoiceAmerica Variety channel. You can listen on your computer, phone, or tablet, find all the ways here!


  One Response to “May 9th: The 100th Episode: Tristan’s Birthday Celebration”

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  1. Hi Tristan…Happy Birthday!

    I receive program notices from Voice America since I’m a former producer of one of their shows. That’s how I got introduced to your work. Gotta say, I’m not only intrigued by your mission but, quite impressed with the list of accomplishments in your field. Wow…you’ve been busy!

    It’s 7:30pmEST here in south Florida, so I’ll attempt to connect to tonights’ show. You and your mom discussing sex…well, that say’s a lot about your relationship. Just not sure exactly ‘what’ it says! haha!

    I do have a question…recently, I saw a website (don’t remember the URL) who’s purpose was, basically, to enhance women’s sexual experiences. It was made by women, for women. Included were videos (audio/visual teaching tool) of women masterbating. It was done in a way to teach women how to, not just pleasure themselves but also, how they might instruct their partners to do the same.

    While I’m still surprised when I hear about women who don’t even know the names of their reproductive organs (let alone how to pleasure themselves), I thought it was a great idea and service for those in need. Then, I thought, “There should be one of these for men. Not how to pleasure themselves but, how to pleasure women. Again, this previously mentioned website targeted females, not males.

    So, my question is, do you provide, or know of any legitimate sites that do a decent job of giving men insights or suggestions to pleasuring women. The key word here is “legitimate”. I’ve seen many sites that say, do this and “she’ll have multiple orgasms”. But their motivation (and resulting instructions) is typically to promote a pill, potion or cream.

    I’m confident my lovers are usually satisified but I’m always interested in how I can enhance their experience (I always think I get more out of giving than they do! Besides, a “concern for my partner” has always been rewarded ten-fold!).

    Gotta go…show’s starting now!

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