Kink and BDSM Resources


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  • Becoming a Slave, by Jack Rinella (Chicago: Rinella Editorial Services, 2005).
  • The Compleat Slave: Creating and Living an Erotic Dominant/Submissive Lifestyle, by Jack Rinella (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1992).
  • Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, by Gloria Brame and William Brame (New York: Villard, 1996).
  • Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment, by Hardy Haberman (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2001).
  • Leatherfolk: Radical Sex, People, Politics, edited by Mark Thompson (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 2004).
  • Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player, by Joseph Bean (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1994).
  • The Marketplace (3rd ed.), by Laura Antoniou (Cambridge, MA: Circlet Press, 2010).
  • The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance, by Jack Rinella (Los Angeles: Daedalus Publishing, 1994).
  • Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual, by Christina Abernathey (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 1996).
  • The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance, by Mistress Lorelei (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2000).
  • The New Bottoming Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2001).
  • The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2003).
  • Partners in Power: Living in Kinky Relationships, by Jack Rinella (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2003).
  • Sacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM and Beyond, by Lee Harrington (, 2010).
  • Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism, by Philip Miller and Molly Devon (Fairfield, CT: Mystic Rose Books, 1995).
  • The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, by Midori (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2002).
  • Sensuous Magic: A Guide for Adventurous Couples, by Patrick Califia (Berkeley: Cleis Press, 2002).
  • Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé, by Lee Harrington (Brooklyn, NY: Mystic Productions Press, 2007).
  • The Slave (3rd ed.), by Laura Antoniou (Cambridge, MA: Circlet Press, 2011).
  • SM 101: A Realistic Introduction, by Jay Wiseman (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 1998).
  • The Toybag Guide to Age Play, by Lee Harrington (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2008).
  • The Toybag Guide to Clips and Clamps, by Jack Rinella (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).
  • The Toybag Guide to Foot and Shoe Worship, by Midori (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).
  • The Toybag Guide to Playing with Taboo, by Mollena Williams (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2004).
  • Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes: A Step-by-Step, Illustrated Guide for Tying Sensual and Decorative Rope Bondage, by Two Knotty Boys (San Francisco: Green Candy Press, 2006).
  • Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-First Century, by Barbara Carrellas (Berkeley, CA: Celestial Arts/Ten Speed Press, 2007).
  • When Someone You Love Is Kinky, by Dossie Easton (Eugene, OR: Greenery Press, 2000).


  • Midori’s Expert Guide to Sensual Bondage, directed by Tristan Taormino (Vivid-Ed, 2009).
  • Nina Hartley’s Guide Series. Nina Hartley hosts and Ernest Greene directs this DVD series covering domination, submission, bondage sex, spanking, and more (Adam and Eve, 2002–2008).
  • Penny Flame’s Expert Guide to Rough Sex, directed by Tristan Taormino (Vivid-Ed, 2009).
  • The S/M Arts Collection: The Pain Game & Tie Me Up, hosted by Cleo Dubois (Academy of S/M Arts, 2002).
  • The SM Tech Educational Series. DVDs with accompanying short books, covering topics like flogging, spanking, bondage, and CBT and featuring educators Lolita Wolf, Joseph Bean, and Scott Smith (Nazca Plains Corporation).

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  1. What have you got for us Geezers? Thank you for the work you do. just a thought just John

  2. Great compilation of resources, T! Your smarts and generosity continues to impress me… Thank YOU!