Do you do actual demonstrations at your anal sex workshops? Do you take volunteers from the audience? How does it work?
—Willing Anal Volunteer
Most of my workshops are lecture-style only, and do not include live sex acts. However, sometimes I have the opportunity to do a demo, especially when I am presenting to a private members-only group. I don’t travel with a demoee, so I usually ask my hosts to find a suitable bottom for me to play with during my workshop. Lots of people volunteer, and most proclaim that they are wild exhibitionists and experienced anal sex lovers. But, a lot of people don’t take into account what it’s like to be demonstrated on. You have your ass in the air in front of a room full of people which can inhibit even the best exhibitionist. Plus, a demo is not like sex. I am talking, answering questions, and cannot focus 100% of my attention on the bottom, as I would if we were having a one-on-one encounter. So, while I am warming them up, it’s really up to the person to get themselves turned on. I have gotten inside some people’s asses, and realized quickly that nerves and excitement were working against getting something of size in their ass.
Recently at a workshop, the demoee was a cute, curly haired girl who I connected with right off the bat. I ended up fitting most of my hand in her ass, and it was a truly amazing experience. That was the best demo I have ever done, but, more often, I just try to make the best of the situation, and let the bottom take the lead in taking whatever he or she wants in their ass.